Everyone has an opinion about what is best for you. Most mean well, some give good advice and a few nail it. However, no matter how clear and accurate peoples advice may be, it is still filtered through their memories, experiences and personality....their lens of perception. At some point you just have to say F#&! it, leave all the noise behind and venture out into the wilderness of your hearts desire. That quite space that allows you to distill the rantings into what resonates truth for you.